{"id":6889,"date":"2019-07-30T00:00:52","date_gmt":"2019-07-30T07:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/innadeshikoway.com\/?p=6889"},"modified":"2019-07-29T23:31:27","modified_gmt":"2019-07-30T06:31:27","slug":"%e5%b9%b8%e3%81%9b%e6%8e%a2%e3%81%97%e3%81%af%e8%87%aa%e5%88%86%e6%8e%a2%e3%81%97","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/innadeshikoway.com\/?p=6889","title":{"rendered":"\u5e78\u305b\u63a2\u3057\u306f\u81ea\u5206\u63a2\u3057"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3053\u3093\u306b\u3061\u306f\u3001Erina\u3067\u3059\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u300c\u5e78\u305b\u306b\u306a\u308a\u305f\u3044\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u300c\u611b\u3055\u308c\u305f\u3044\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u300c\u5927\u5207\u306b\u3055\u308c\u305f\u3044\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 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height=\"314\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u30bf\u30a4\u30c8\u30eb\u306f Good and Bad Childhood \u3067\u3001\u826f\u3044\u5e7c\u5c11\u671f\u3068\u60aa\u3044\u5e7c\u5c11\u671f\u304c\u3001\u5927\u4eba\u306b\u306a\u3063\u305f\u6642\u3001\u4eba\u9593\u95a2\u4fc2\u3001\u7279\u306b\u604b\u611b\u95a2\u4fc2\u3067\u3069\u3046\u5f71\u97ff\u3059\u308b\u304b\u30923\u5206\u9593\u3067\u307e\u3068\u3081\u3089\u308c\u3066\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u300c\u604b\u611b\u306b\u81ea\u4fe1\u304c\u306a\u3044\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u300c\u826f\u3044\u76f8\u624b\u3068\u3081\u3050\u308a\u4f1a\u3048\u306a\u3044\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u300c\u4f55\u3092\u3057\u3066\u3082\u6e80\u305f\u3055\u308c\u305f\u611f\u3058\u304c\u3057\u306a\u3044\u300d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 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loser.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5931\u6557\u3057\u3066\u3082\u3001\u30eb\u30fc\u30b6\u30fc\u3060\u306a\u3093\u3066\u547c\u3070\u308c\u308b\u3053\u3068\u306f\u306a\u3044\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">When there is a problem, you get through it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u4f55\u304b\u554f\u984c\u304c\u8d77\u3053\u3063\u305f\u3089\u3001\u3042\u306a\u305f\u306f\u305d\u308c\u3092\u4e57\u308a\u8d8a\u3048\u308b\u3067\u3057\u3087\u3046\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">In short, you deserve to exist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3064\u307e\u308a\u3001\u3042\u306a\u305f\u306f\u5b58\u5728\u610f\u7fa9\u3092\u898b\u51fa\u3059\u3053\u3068\u304c\u3067\u304d\u308b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">Whatever the value system of the competitive world out there, 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style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">When you are messy, they are disgusted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3042\u306a\u305f\u304c\u6c5a\u3057\u3066\u3057\u307e\u3046\u3068\u3001\u5927\u4eba\u306f\u305d\u308c\u306b\u3046\u3093\u3056\u308a\u3059\u308b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">When you try to be strong, they are threatened.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3042\u306a\u305f\u304c\u5f37\u6c17\u306b\u306a\u308b\u3068\u3001\u305d\u308c\u306b\u5bfe\u6297\u3057\u3088\u3046\u3068\u3059\u308b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">When you are weak and unimpressive, they belittle you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u3042\u306a\u305f\u304c\u5f31\u6c17\u306b\u306a\u308b\u3068\u3001\u3061\u3063\u307d\u3051\u306a\u4eba\u9593\u3068\u3057\u3066\u6271\u3046\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">In short, it&#8217;s a bit of a pity you are around. You don&#8217;t quite deserve to exist. 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color: #0000ff;\">And likewise a bad sort of childhood is proper lasting problem.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u540c\u69d8\u306b\u3001\u60aa\u3044\u65b9\u306e\u5e7c\u5c11\u671f\u3082\u3001\u305d\u306e\u5f8c\u306e\u4eba\u751f\u306b\u5f71\u97ff\u3057\u307e\u3059\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">It keeps undermining relationships, generates endless problems around sex, saps confidence, brings anxieties, self hatred and shame.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u3067\u306f\u306a\u3044\u4eba\u9593\u95a2\u4fc2\u3092\u7d9a\u3051\u3055\u305b\u3001\u6027\u306b\u95a2\u3057\u3066\u306e\u554f\u984c\u306f\u5c71\u7a4d\u307f\u3067\u3001\u81ea\u4fe1\u3092\u306a\u304f\u3057\u3001\u4e0d\u5b89\u3084\u81ea\u5df1\u5acc\u60aa\u3001\u6065\u3092\u751f\u307f\u307e\u3059\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">We don&#8217;t yet know how complete to fix bad childhoods.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u73fe\u6642\u70b9\u3067\u3001\u60aa\u3044\u5e7c\u5c11\u671f\u3092\u76f4\u3059\u65b9\u6cd5\u306f\u308f\u304b\u308a\u307e\u305b\u3093\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">They are a proper pain to have had, but here are one or two things to try very hard to keep in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u305d\u308c\u3089\u304c\u50b7\u307f\u3067\u3042\u308b\u3053\u3068\u306f\u78ba\u304b\u3060\u3051\u308c\u3069\u3001\u305d\u308c\u3092\u4e57\u308a\u8d8a\u3048\u308b\u305f\u3081\u306e\u65b9\u6cd5\u306f\u3044\u304f\u3064\u304b\u3042\u308a\u307e\u3059\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">Do everything you can to understand the craziness inside you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u81ea\u5206\u306e\u4e2d\u306b\u3042\u308b\u304a\u304b\u3057\u3044\u3082\u306e\u3092\u7406\u89e3\u3059\u308b\u305f\u3081\u306a\u3089\u3001\u306a\u3093\u3067\u3082\u3084\u308a\u307e\u3057\u3087\u3046\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #0000ff;\">Be suspicious of many of your first intuitions and responses.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u7b2c\u4e00\u5370\u8c61\u3084\u305d\u308c\u3078\u306e\u53cd\u5fdc\u306b\u7591\u3044\u3092\u6301\u3061\u307e\u3057\u3087\u3046\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; 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